
Absolutely no writer in the world will tell you that writing is easy. And if anyone says so they are either lying or are just highly arrogant. Equally, no writer in the world will tell you that they are burning to tap away at the keyboard constantly, or that the stories just fly out perfectly and smoothly like you’re a movie character who has just had an epiphany in the final act. We have all lost motivation at one point or another, and there are many forms this can take. Whether you feel your writing simply isn’t good enough, you just cannot come up with a good idea, or you can’t find the energy to plough through that first draft, we have all been there. Take a dip into the Instagram writing community, and you will see for yourself that the pages on there are full of not only great writing advice and inspiration, but all too relatable sentiments of the struggle of staying on the path to achieving your writing dreams. But now we’ve figured out that we all want to bang our heads against the keyboard every now and again, what can we do about it?
Problem 1 – You simply feel like you have no stories left in you – This is actually a very common feeling after having written a manuscript which you consider to be your best work; how can you follow that, how can you do better than that? What next? Well even though you don’t feel like it at the moment, you will definitely have dozens of more stories left in you. You just have to relax, and let your mind wander; chances are you’ve just finished a project, and you’re in focus, heads-down, deadlines mode. Well, here’s the nice news, it’s time to let go of that, and dip back into creativity mode! And if you really love writing, that’s the mode your mind will feel most at home in. Where have you found inspiration before? Whether it’s films, music, travel, or observing situations in your life, immerse yourself in what gets your imagination whirling, and write those ideas down. Don’t try and organise them, just let them flow as the weeks, months or even years go by. Settings, plot points, characters, atmosphere, you name it. And when you see all of these ideas gathering on a page, your mind will naturally start to piece them together, and things will start to click into place. It will happen, you just can’t pressure yourself. At the end of the day, your writing is meant to be a pleasure, and if you need a period of letting your imagination run wild, just taking notes and writing character profiles, by all means do that. You do not need to constantly be at the keyboard to still be creating.
Problem 2 – You do not feel as if your writing is good enough – It’s highly beneficial to strive to push yourself and grow as a writer. However it’s not beneficial to believe that anything less than perfection is a waste of time. The aim is to grow as a writer, not instantly become a literary genius. For example writing an opening chapter, thinking it’s terrible and abandoning it will get you nowhere. Why do you think it’s terrible? Are you merely being hard on yourself, or are there things you can improve on? You have the power here; if you can identify problems, you can fix them, and voila! Your writing has improved. All it takes to improve is a little research, constructive self criticism and effort. If you are not happy with your writing, you can alter it. And, to return to the phrase ‘good enough’, there is only one person in the world your writing has to be good enough for, and that is, you guessed it, yourself. If you are proud of it, if it is your baby, and you have endeavoured all you can to make it this way, then it is good enough. Anything that brings you personal satisfaction is worth your time, and there is nothing remotely selfish about that notion. Another tip I have for making oneself aware of one’s own improvement, is to read your old writing (check out my own post about that, here). Trust me, it’s worth the cringe.
Problem 3 – You do not physically have the time, or the energy to write – Life is a busy thing; most people are juggling any combinations of work, studying, socialising, family time, household chores and relaxation. There will be periods in every writer’s life, where you simply do not have time to write, and when you do you’re just too plain exhausted and it truly feels like an arduous chore. And if you’re anything like me, you’ll beat yourself up for this. Don’t be like me. You’re a human being, and you can’t be running every race at the same time. Chances are, if you are overworked, your writing will not be of the highest quality. Take a break, don’t rush yourself. Most people don’t have a gun to their head, and when you do have more time, you won’t suddenly have forgotten what the English language is. We all need a break, even sometimes from tasks we enjoy. I’ll come out and say it, I’m not getting much writing done at the moment, what with blogging, family time, looking after a horse, organising my book publication and general bits and bobs. And whenever I feel bad about this, I remember the things I have achieved this year with my riding, this blog and the two manuscripts I have completed, one of which is being published this July. There’s only so much anyone can do, especially in lockdown. I’m currently writing when I can, and when I feel like it, and never to the point where the work makes me lose my excitement for the project. Give yourself a break, and your writing energy will return.
Problem 4 – You feel alone as a writer – Writing can be a very solitary venture, and often one without much external validation. Often, none of your friends will be into writing, and you will feel a bit of a freak sometimes. Yes hello, I spend hours creating imaginary scenarios with imaginary people and getting emotionally invested in the outcome; how do you do? Trust me, you are not the only person who is passionate about writing; you simply need to have the courage to put yourself out there. Ever since I announced The Demon’s Dollhouse, I’ve been astounded by how many people in my life I’ve discovered to be keen readers, run a book club or even write themselves. And the more you think about it, the more you realise how the nature of literature can be something that is the polar opposite of lonely; books are a way of tapping into human desires, fears and experiences through the constructs of stories and characters, and are a fuel for interesting conversation and debate. Writing is only truly a lonely experience, if you see it that way. If you want to get an impression of just how many writers are out there, follow some writing related hashtags on Instagram; you’ll discover some great pages, and some stellar writing advice to boot.
Problem 5 – You genuinely have no desire to write at the moment – This does not mean you are no longer a writer; you are a writer as long as you say you are, as you strive to be one and you love literature. Nobody comes to take your writing license away if you take a step back for a few years. I did this from summer 2018 to autumn 2019. Best decision I ever made. I learned so much in that year, about myself, about people, about writing, and that break was vital in enabling me to write the way I can write now, which is of course, far from perfect, but better than I ever though possible. If your passion is burning low, and you just aren’t feeling it at this point in your life, that is completely okay. Hang up your quill for a while, try another passion, get some new life experience under your belt. Give yourself as much time as you need for your writing brain to return, because it’s more than likely that it will, in six months, six years or even at the age of sixty. You are not a failure for recognising your own needs at a certain point in your life, and if writing is not one of them, do not stress about it.
Describing a person as ‘highly motivated’, is an impossible description. Nobody is entirely motivated, it comes and goes throughout time, and that is completely the same when it comes to being motivated as a writer. Sometimes you need to dig deep and find it, and sometimes you simply need to give yourself a break.
My debut novel, The Demon’s Dollhouse will be released on Amazon this July; feel free to follow my blog, and my Instagram blog account @rowan_writes_ and my Facebook page Rowan Speakman Books 🙂
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By, Rowan Speakman
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